Young ladies, Even if it is an emergency, NEVER SLEEP WITH YOUR BOSS.
You might be excited with that internship position you just secured. You're excited that you have landed your first job after college. Don't let your excitement make you think that you should sleep with that your boss or immediate supervisor that seems like he likes you.
This is the worst decision that you can make about your life. Actually, it is the start of your career path retardation instead of growth.
Why shouldn't you even think of sleeping with your boss? Let me tell you, your co workers will definitely know. All y'all at the workplace are hired for your expertise. Don't think that the bunch of intellects at the workplace won't know you're banging the boss. Actually, your co workers will tell even when you are not getting along with that boss you have been sleeping with! How awkward??
We know he has promised you a promotion. He has also promised you a salary increase. But do you know you're just delusional?? Your boss sees you as dumb. You already agreed to sleep with him despite the many other females at the workplace declining his advances. So you have already lost your credibility at the workplace and you're not the person that will come to mind when a promotion is on the table. That boss you're exchanging fluids with will go and promote that lady who has for a long time been declining his advances. He can see work ethics in that lady who turned him down and not you!
Sleeping with your boss or superior at work will just end in premium tears. I have seen girls in their early 20s crying their life has been ruined by their boss. You will make a mistake or something illegal at the workplace happens and your boss will not even defend you. He will not hesitate to take you to court and testify against you. He will even make sure you are jailed especially if you try to threaten him that you will expose him.
By the Way, what makes you think that you can expose your boss to have been sleeping with you and think he will let you go through with it. He will see to it your life is destroyed. He will lie and his power and money will protect him. He will shame you and even claim that you tried to seduce him.
Again, even if you don't make any mistake at the workplace, wait until he is tired with you. Wait until a new intern comes to the workplace! You will face the worst disgrace of your life. Until you will even opt to quit that job!!
You can sleep with all the people you want, but kindly keep off someone who has power over you. Someone who holds your salary. Someone who determines whether to fire you or not. Someone who can wake up one day and render you jobless.
Just keep off! Not in a country where most employees are ignorant of corporate law. Not in a country where employers will get away with sexual harassment. (In western countries, most of the time the law does not care whether the sex was consensual. They only consider that the boss used his power to ask for sexual favors).
Young girls getting employed in small businesses like boutiques and Mpesa. Stop sleeping with your boss. How can he pay you Ten thousand and still get a taste of your cookie??? You should be thinking of how to manage that 10 thousand you're being paid in this hard economy but not meeting him in hotel rooms after work. Wait until his wife comes and fires you!!! Who will pay that your bedsitter rent?
Young girls getting in the employment world, keep off sleeping with your bosses!! Infact, don't even reply to messages like "You look hot today". Don't say Thank you!! Blue tick him!! He has no Business with your hotness, his business is to pay you!
Parents tell your girls graduating college to keep off their bosses. I have seen girls in early 20s cry. All in the name of sleeping with their bosses. It will end in tears!! Massive tears!
© Joyce Mwai
Writer/ Teenage Mentor/ Trainer
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